What do lingam, yoni and prostate mean?
Lingam is the Sanskrit term for the penis and yoni for the vagina. The prostate is the small chestnut-sized gland nestled inside the anus of a man.
Are you naked, am I naked?
For the Simply Pleasure massages, I am naked. For the Rechian bodywork, the client can wear whatever they are comfortable with as long as I can access the skin and I wear a sarong or light clothing I can move in. For the Nurturing Touch, we are both clothed.
Will tantric massage therapy cure my sexual problems?
Tantric massage will connect you more deeply to your experience of your own body and your ability to be dynamic, responsive and communicative about touch. It will shift you energetically and introduce you to a more full body experience of touch and intimate touch. Although problems such as Premature Ejaculation are pretty easy to 'fix' through tantric massage, I cannot guarantee that it will cure all sexual problems. It may help with Erectile Dysfunction or it may not. However, it will help you to learn to enjoy your body and interpersonal touch despite them.
May I touch you?
There is no mutual touch. I may permit some non-intimate mutual touch if it is beneficial to the work we are doing together. I will not permit intimate touch of me in any way.
What if I am not comfortable with what it happening?
You will be given a safe word and I will stop immediately if you say it.
I am in counselling for sexual abuse issues. Is this a problem?
If you are being counselled for sexual abuse issues, I would insist on contact with your counsellor so that we can all work together to design a program of psychological and physical work that is going to the most beneficial for you.
Do you use sex toys?
I enjoy using sex toys where appropriate and only with your consent. All sex toys are clean and protection is used.
What is your policy on hygiene?
All sheets and towels are fresh with every appointment and all facilities are cleaned in-between appointments.
You must be freshly showered before we start any massage. I have shower facilities. If you are coming for anal massage, you are also required to douche. You can find instructions on this on the internet and you can buy an anal douche very cheaply on the internet or sometimes from a good pharmacist.
I am also freshly showered. I always wear gloves for any intimate touch and am happy to wear gloves for any of the massages if you would like me to.